First things first: story time!
When Jef and I were first looking for an apartment, we started out with our dream list: one bedroom, hardwood floors, big, south-facing windows, a large kitchen, walking distance from a grocery store, a coffeeshop, and a bus stop, and in our very modest price range. We knew we would probably have to compromise on some things, but we needed a dream to start from. In the end, we found our nearly-perfect place. It’s on a noisy street with hardly any parking, and the plumbing can be a little funky they way it is with older buildings, but pretty much everything else is more than we expected to be able to afford. (Holy crap, you should see the size of our kitchen!)
So the moral of the story is: know what you want before you go after it.
So what do I want?
- A job doing massage therapy that I can do very part time to start, after my day job, maybe two weeknights plus Sundays, with the possibility of increasing the time in the future. I do both treatment-focused work as well as relaxation massage. I work on a really diverse clientele and learn a lot.
- This place has different kinds of practitioners that all respect each other, and each others’ work. They’re smart and funny, and maybe a little nerdy. They feel like a community of people who actually like working together.
- The folks in charge here don’t mind that I’m new, but have high, reasonable, and VERY CLEAR expectations for me. They tell me what’s up and where I need to improve to my face and then don’t hold a grudge about it after I’ve improved.
- The business has a commitment to being a responsible part of society. They keep things legal, ethical, and like to do a good turn when they can. They’re environmentally aware and actually act on that.
- There’s a real focus on empowering clients to improve their lives, and not just on bringing them back in for more of whatever they’ll pay for.
- They’re happy to let me poke around in the business side of things.
- There’s a bit of a minimalist aesthetic going on at this place. Not too much artwork on the walls, too many knick-knacks on the horizontal surfaces, or too much anything anywhere. And it’s not painted purple. It just isn’t.
- It’s within several miles of home, and along a safe bicycle route. (And because of that whole eco-awareness thing, they don’t see this as a weird thing to want.)
Basically, this is a job that makes my life better. It’s a place I want to be, a place that I want my clients to be, and a place I’m proud to be a part of.
Now I just gotta go out and find it.
If you haven’t already got it, what’s your dream job?
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Congratulations on your new place! Your apartment sounds great. I love hardwood floors.
Good luck with your job search. I’m sure you’ll find something that will work out well for you.
If you lived in Olympia, I would hire you right now. I’m 3 blocks off the bike path that runs the 3 miles from my home to my office. On occasion, I bike commute.
Working evenings and weekends is a great way to start because a lot of therapists don’t want to work those hours but the clients don’t want to take time off work.
And having someone willing to poke around in the business side of things? Sounds great to me if you’re willing to take on some of the responsibility. Oh, and I’m as eco-responsible and green as I can be, minimal decor and no purple. Also, no incense, aromatherapy only by request and I expect you to wear shoes. Now hustle on over here so I can put you to work!
Good luck on the job search and good for you knowing what kind of environment you want to work in.
Great post! And may I say–regardless of what it is you’re looking for–you’re much more apt to get it when you’re as clear about it as Katherine. When plans are vague, they don’t come to fruition!
Fantastic post Kat!!! Hopefully others who are new to massage therapy will learn quite a lot from this post. You’re 100% right—-THE DECISION COMES FIRST! You’ve got to be clear on what you want before you try and make it happen. Once you write it down and share it, you’ll save yourself a ton of time and money, not to mention disappointment.
What impressed me most was that you didn’t name a specific modality or specialization—you focused on what YOU wanted in the environment and the “learning space.” This is important!!
Hang in there!
Great post Kat! You are definitely on the right track. I knew I didn’t want to work for someone else and I wanted my own practice right out of school. I wanted a place that was holistic in nature and had rent I could afford while I was buiding my business. I found it, I love it and I am happy! I found a place that was created for other practitioners just starting out and buiding their practices. The other practitioners are wonderful and we all get along fabulously and support each other. Your special place is out there. Good luck with everything.
Consider starting your own business. You may find that the only company that strives for the same goals that you do is the company that you start yourself.
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